DoetPrivacy Policy
Effective 7 November 2026
- Who is responsible
- What we collect
- Device permissions
- Apple Health
- How we use data
- Sharing with your partner
- Service providers
- International transfers
- Retention and deletion
- Security
- Your rights
- Age limits
- Changes and contact
1. Who is responsible for your data
Doet is an iPhone app and website operated by Doron Shapira, an individual developer based in Israel ("Doet", "we", "us"). We are the controller of the personal data described in this policy. Contact us about anything privacy related at hello.doet@gmail.com.
This policy covers the Doet app, the doet.rochasgames.com website and Doet's support email.
2. What we collect
| Category | What exactly | Where it comes from |
|---|---|---|
| Account | Your first name; your email address if you sign in with email or Google; the account identifier Apple or Google gives us; an internal user ID. | You, Apple, Google |
| Couple space | Who you are paired with and your couple code; your answers to the couple quiz (for example how long you have been together, where you met, the country and city you type in, whether you live together or have kids, your anniversary, your rituals, the things you love and the times that suit you); your goals and targets; planned moments; logged moments with notes, check-in values and photos; your couple photo; "Me too" taps; saved ideas and locked plans, including secret dates. | You and your partner |
| Device and notifications | A push notification token, your device's time zone, your notification preferences, the app version and build, and a Firebase installation identifier. | Your device |
| Purchases | Whether your couple space has Doet+, the plan, the original transaction ID, renewal, expiry and refund status, and the environment (live or test). Apple handles all payments; we never receive your card details. | Apple |
| Usage | Which screens and features are used (for example that a goal was created or a moment was logged), in aggregate form, without the content you write. | The app, via Firebase Analytics |
| Diagnostics | Crash reports and performance data: device model, iOS version, app version and the technical state at the time of a crash. | The app, via Firebase Crashlytics |
| Support | The emails you send us and anything you include, such as diagnostics the app adds when you tap Contact support. | You |
We do not collect your precise location, your contacts, your browsing history or your device's advertising identifier.
3. Device permissions
Doet asks for each permission only when you use the feature, and every one is optional. You can change them anytime in iOS Settings.
- Notifications: to remind you before planned moments and to tell you when your partner logs something.
- Camera and Photos: to take or choose a couple photo or a memory photo, and to save a card to your library when you tap Save. Doet does not browse your photo library.
- Calendars: to add your planned moments to your calendar and, if you turn on clash checking, to read your busy times on your iPhone. Your calendar contents are not sent to us. If you connect Google Calendar, Doet uses Google's Calendar API (permission to manage events) only to read busy times and to create, update and remove the events Doet made. Google's use of that data is covered by Google's privacy policy.
- Screen Time (Couple time): lets you quiet chosen apps while you are together. The apps you choose stay on your iPhone; Doet never receives a list of the apps you use.
- Apple Health: see the next section.
4. Apple Health
If you allow it, Doet reads workouts, walking and running distance, steps and body weight from Apple Health to fill in check-ins on your health goals. Doet never writes to Apple Health. A value only leaves your iPhone when you save it as a check-in; it is then stored in your couple space so you and your partner can see your shared progress. Health data is never used for advertising, marketing or data mining, is never sold, is never used to build profiles about you, and is never shared with third parties other than the infrastructure providers that store your couple space for us.
5. How we use data, and why we are allowed to
| Purpose | Legal basis |
|---|---|
| Creating your account, pairing you with your partner and running your shared couple space | Performing our contract with you |
| Reminders, partner updates and your weekly story | Performing our contract with you; your consent to notifications in iOS |
| Filling check-ins from Apple Health | Your explicit consent, which you can withdraw in iOS Settings |
| Selling and restoring Doet+ and sharing it with your partner | Performing our contract with you |
| Fixing crashes, keeping the service secure and preventing abuse | Our legitimate interest in a reliable, safe service |
| Understanding which features are used, in aggregate, to improve Doet | Our legitimate interest in improving the app |
| Answering support requests | Performing our contract with you; our legitimate interest in helping you |
| Keeping purchase and tax records | Legal obligations |
You are not legally required to give us any personal data, but without an account and a couple space the app cannot work. We do not make decisions about you based solely on automated processing. Ideas ("Sparks") and the weekly story are generated on your iPhone with Apple's on-device models where available, or picked from a built-in list; their prompts do not leave your device.
6. Sharing with your partner
Everything in your couple space, including goals, plans, moments, notes, photos, quiz answers and check-ins filled from Apple Health, is visible to your partner. That is how Doet works. A secret date stays hidden from your partner until the planned moment; this is enforced on our servers, not just in the app. We do not share your couple space with anyone else, and we never sell or rent personal data.
7. Service providers
We use these providers to run Doet. They process data only on our instructions and under contracts that require them to protect it.
| Provider | What they do for us |
|---|---|
| Google (Firebase and Google Cloud) | Sign-in, database for couple spaces, push notifications, our server, website hosting, usage analytics and crash reports |
| Cloudflare (R2) | Storage for couple and memory photos |
| Apple | Sign in with Apple, App Store payments and subscription status, push notification delivery |
We may also disclose data if the law requires it, to protect the rights or safety of our users or others, or as part of a transfer of the app to a new owner, who would have to honor this policy.
8. International transfers
Our providers store and process data on servers in the United States and other countries. Where data about people in the European Economic Area, the United Kingdom or Switzerland is transferred, we rely on the providers' standard contractual clauses or adequacy decisions. Israel is recognised by the European Commission as providing adequate protection.
9. How long we keep data, and deleting it
- We keep your account data for as long as your account exists.
- Delete your account anytime in the app: Us tab, then Delete account. This removes your login, your profile and your device data (such as your push token) from our systems. Moments and photos you shared stay in the couple space for your partner, because they belong to both of you. When the last member of a couple space deletes their account, the whole space, including its photos, is deleted.
- Leaving a couple space (Us tab, then Leave couple) removes you from it; the space stays with your partner.
- Deleting your account does not cancel an App Store subscription. Cancel it in iOS Settings, then your name, then Subscriptions.
- Crash reports are kept for up to 90 days and analytics data for up to 14 months, then deleted by Firebase automatically.
- Support emails are kept for up to 2 years after the conversation ends.
- Purchase records are kept as long as tax and accounting laws require, up to 7 years.
- Backups made by our providers roll over within 30 days.
10. Security
Data is encrypted in transit (HTTPS) and at rest by our providers. Access to each couple space is limited to its two members by server-side rules, photos are stored privately and reached only through short-lived signed links, and every subscription is verified against Apple's signatures. No system is perfectly secure; if a breach affects you, we will tell you and the relevant authorities as the law requires.
11. Your rights
You can see and correct most of your data directly in the app, and delete your account there. You can also email hello.doet@gmail.com to:
- get a copy of your personal data, in a portable format where applicable;
- correct data that is wrong or incomplete;
- delete your data;
- object to or ask us to restrict processing based on our legitimate interests;
- withdraw a consent you gave (this does not affect what we did before).
We answer within 30 days and may need to confirm it is really you. These rights apply wherever you live. Depending on your country you may also complain to a data protection authority: in Israel, the Privacy Protection Authority; in the EU or UK, your local supervisory authority. California residents: we do not sell or share personal information for cross-context behavioral advertising, and we do not use sensitive personal information to infer characteristics about you.
12. Age limits
Doet is meant for adults in a relationship. You must be at least 16 years old to use it. We do not knowingly collect data from children under 16; if you believe a child has created an account, write to us and we will delete it.
13. Changes and contact
If we change this policy we will update the date at the top and, for meaningful changes, tell you in the app before they take effect.
Questions or requests: hello.doet@gmail.com. Operator: Doron Shapira, Israel.